We are a movement that provides an enrichment programme for married couples. The programme is a stay-in weekend retreat that has transformed thousands of marriages over 50 years in 94 countries.
Our Purpose
Vision
Love One Another
As I Have Loved You
Mission
To proclaim the value of marriage
and Holy Orders in the Church
and in the World.
Values
Frequently asked questions
ME is for all married couples who want to get more out of their relationship. It is as much for good marriages to be better as it is for dull marriages to be refreshed. Many couples find it meaningful to come to ME in their anniversary months. We recommend any couple who has been married for 3 years and above to experience this wonderful gift.
A series of talks are presented by a team of trained couples and a priest.
After each talk, couples are given time for private reflection and couple dialogue.
Yes, absolutely ! At the Marriage Encounter Weekend, couples are taught a special technique of loving communication. They put into practice this technique in the privacy of their own room.
There are no group discussions.
It also provides couples an opportunity to look at their relationship with God and to better appreciate Marriage as a Sacrament of the Church.
It starts at 8 pm on Friday and ends at 6 pm on Sunday.
Marriage Encounter Weekends are usually held on the 1st Friday of the month at The Marriage Encounter House, 201-B Seventeenth Avenue, Punggol Road, Singapore 829651. (Weekend Booking Enquiry 96705390)
A S$50 non-refundable registration fee secures your booking.
At the end of the Weekend, each couple is given a blank envelope for their Love-offering to help defray the cost of the Weekend.
Marriage Encounter welcomes all married couples who have the desire to deepen their couple love and strengthen their relationship. Financial constraint should never be a reason for missing out on the Weekend. The love-offering is personal and anonymous. We have been blessed by previous generous couples who have contributed in order for couples who cannot afford to also attend. Please contact us and we would be happy to assist you.
No. Marriage Encounter welcomes couples of all faiths.
Yes. ME is as much for couples as it is for priests and religious. The tools and insights from the programme are equally applicable in the relationship between priests and parishioners; religious and communities.
Our Team
Board Members
National Coordinating Priest
Fr Dominique Deme
National Coordinating Couple
Dominic & Fiona Ang
Board Couples
Jeffrey & Anne De Silva
Gregory & Elaine Ho
Sekar & Anitha Susaimanickam
Nicholas & Celeste Khoo
Mandarin Coordinating Team
Fr Henry Siew
Augustine & Sophia Tan
Indonesian Coordinating Team
Fr Rusdi Santoso
Buana & Rina Girisuta
Executive Team
Secretariat
Aldrin & Celine Thomas
Finance
Edric & Fion Koh
Registration
Reenie Tan
House Reservation
Joseph & Joanne Kang
House Maintenance
Meng Khoon & Rosa Wong
AV/IT
David & Clara Soon
Edy & Irene Simon
Service Teams
Love Circle Link
Samuel & Jacqueline Wong
Love Line
Michael & Su Lee Wong
Food & Hosting
Philip & Irene Doo
OutReach
Gabriel & Karren Kok
Prayer
Walter & Amelia Ching
Supplies
Ronnie & Vivien Soh
Welcome
Kenneth & Suelynn Koh
History
In 2003, Marriage Encounter, Singapore and Marriage Encounter, Korea pledged to give financial aid to Marriage Encounter, Sri Lanka so that they can organise stay-in weekends. In 2005, Marriage Encounter, Singapore sent a couple and priest to Shenyang, China. The seed to spread of Marriage Encounter to other parts of China was thus planted.
Marriage Encounter Singapore started when Fr Jean-Pierre Benit (a Belgian missionary who had spent many years in Taiwan) and Sr Columba (a nun from The Good Shepherd Fraternity) dreamed of bringing Marriage Encounter to Singapore. They formed a small organising committee with Sr Clare, Jim & Carmen, Stephen & Joan, and Peter & Bernadette, and established contacts with the Encounter communities in Australia, Canada and the United States. The first Weekend was held on 6 – 8 April 1979 at the Ambassador Hotel for 25 couples and two priests. Financial assistance came from the Encounter communities of Canada and Australia. India had been given the responsibility to reach out to Singapore. Their community sent Austin & Celine who together with Peter & Evelyn (an Australian couple working in the embassy in Kuala Lumpur) and Fr Jean-Pierre made up the Weekend presenting team. India, and later the Philippines, continued to send couples to present subsequent Weekends in Singapore until local couples could take over. The next exciting milestone was in March 1980, when Singapore “reached out” to Malaysia. A year after the first Weekend, the Encounter community launched a number of “Open and Apostolic” (O&A) programs like “Evening for the Engaged” and “Evenings for Parents”. In 1981, the Marriage Encounter House in Punggol was opened, thanks to a generous donation from the Scheut Missions. Two more programs were launched – CHOICE Weekend for young single adults and “MATRIMONY – Jesus Invites Us to Love” program for 14 – 16 year olds. In 1982 this gathering momentum launched Engaged Encounter Weekends for couples planning to marry, and the Mandarin-speaking Weekends followed soon after. Solving individual marital problems has never been the goal of Marriage Encounter. Instead, during the Weekend, a husband and wife are given the opportunity to share the emotions that so often are kept buried inside. They are taught how to make such communication a part of everyday life. Marriage Encounter emphasises the beauty of belonging totally to one another.
In 1971, American couples and priests travelled to Belgium and later to England and overseas expansion grew rapidly. WWME is now offered in numerous languages and dialects in 83 countries. In addition to the Weekend, other programs have “spun off” of the Marriage Encounter Experience including Engaged Encounter, Evening for the Engaged, Choice, The Beginning Experience (for divorced and widowed) and Retrouvaille.
A couple and priest presented the weekend to seven couples and a few priests at the Christian Family Movement Convention at United States. By the summer of 1968, 50 couples and 29 priests were presenting weekends in USA. The New York area became the centre of Marriage Encounter under the leadership of Fr Charles Gallagher, SJ and a couple. There was strong emphasis on the development of a Marriage Encounter ‘community” to provide support for living the values learned through the weekend, especially for dialogue. In addition, the renewal of the Sacrament of Matrimony was a strong focus, as a means for renewing the Catholic Church. Thus developed Worldwide Marriage Encounter. As a result, Worldwide and National Marriage Encounter both exist today as two different expressions of the original weekend developed by Fr Gabriel Calvo.
The story of Worldwide Marriage Encounter began in Spain in 1952 when a young priest, Fr Gabriel Calvo, began developing a series of conferences for married couples. Their focus was on the development of an open and honest relationship within marriage and learning to live out a sacramental relationship in the service of others. In 1962, Fr Calvo presented the conferences as a weekend retreat to 28 couples in his native Barcelona. Marriage Encounter was on its way! In 1966, Fr Calvo and a couple addressed the International Confederation of Christian Family Movement in Caracas. The Weekend spread to Latin America and to Spanish speaking couples in the United States.
Worldwide Marriage Encounter Singapore is an Affiliate of Catholic Family Life.
Copyright © 2024 Worldwide Marriage Encounter Singapore. All rights reserved.